c++ friend: May 2009

Saturday, May 9, 2009

I want 2 c my friend photo so how can i c her.?

Get her to give you a photo

How do i get a friend code on pokemon pearl?i need to know!! C:?

ive searched and searched but still cant find how to get a friend code!! please help C:

pokemon is my addiction xDD

How do i get a friend code on pokemon pearl?i need to know!! C:?
u need a pal pad in ur key items. if u have one it should say ....... code

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insert poke name here

if u need help just email me

C&A friend type people..... would you do me a favor????

Okie guys well I really want a new name thingy on here... but I'm not sure what to change it to!! :(

Something to do with anime of course...

Yeah, I'm clueless...

I just want a new name! So pleaseeee help me?

Yeah and whatever else you need to know I'll tell ya I guess :)

Thanks a bunch in advance xD

And nothing to do with Sakura PLEASE!

C%26amp;A friend type people..... would you do me a favor????
lolz@ 'friend type people'

i like the one you have now..and your avatar is hilarious..sakura is all ARGHHHHHHHHHHHH ..i love how when anime characters get angry they grow fangs and their mouths turn into the size of a hallway XD
Reply:lolz well its true ^_^...yay@keeping your name! Report It

Reply:keep it do u think i should change mine to sasori or something??
Reply:hinamori...lalallala~
Reply:Uh what was your name before that one? I remember liking that one I think.
Reply:Ok I will try to alter the name a bit...

Mystical Sakura-chan

Mysterious Sakura-chan

Sakura-chan of Zen

Adventurous Sakura-chan

There we go some of the things that came to mind it changes the name but at the same time it doesn't change it completely.
Reply:I have a name!!!

how about...

'No Sakura Plz!!!'

lol...yea!

-Miyuki ^.^
Reply:Invader Anba-Shinigami!

It's the same style so I'll still recognize you with a real name plus it uses your name (amber = anba using a japanese translator) and one of your fave anime (Death Note)
Reply:anime-otaku-sama

shitty name i know

make sure it something so people know it's you though cuz if you change your name and avatar it'll be very confusing to know if you are you

one of my contacts changed everything and i totally talked to her like a complete stranger and now she's mad at me for fogetting her

T_T

sorry i do not know that good so i can not think of a good one
Reply:Aww.... I love "Invader Sakura-chan".... it sounded really cool and was original.... D=

hold on... thinking.... lol!
Reply:that azn kid

that japanese kid

crazy4ramen (ill take it if you won't)

noeknoway

=)
Reply:lol XD

NOTHING to do with Sakura.

sounds good [:

ummm..... wait. i'll brb
Reply:*cries* i liked invader sakura!!!!!! it was sooooooooo original!!!! *pouts* darn! well it is up 2 u i guess.... lol

but as for a name, i ain't that original. and right now i'm too hyper to think of even a simple name!!

lololololololololololololololololololo...

i'm okay...........

but mayb u should just put 2 words together again^^ gewd luck!!!
Reply:Addicted2Ramen

or

CrazedNinja

I'm brain dead, I can't think of anything really good.
Reply:lol!!!XD

i was also thinking n changing mine!!!

well not exactly changing, but adding something^^

sounds like fun!!!!

^_^

but first:

-tell us what you really like, like fave anime character

-a song might help.....=P

-favorite color...

you know the usual stuff...

I really like the one you have!!!

it's pretty unique[=

*thinking*

=)

i'll be right back with some ideas ^^
Reply:keep it, it's good!

or just "Sakura-Chan"..

ot how about ~SASUsaku~...
Reply:Ichigo-is-a-Strawberry!

Or maybe...

Luckystar4eva!

I don't know....first things thay came to my mind...
Reply:try anime freak invador or anime omega ,i cant think of any else i am bad at creating names
Reply:kakashi rocks
Reply:My sis says Invader Sasuke-kun! LoL

Okay... just wait a minute...

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Sasuke no Baka??

IDK, I constantly change my name. But i always change my picture to match it.

Good luck finding a name ^_^
Reply:I have to tell ya I like the one you have now.

Haven't spoken to a really good friend in months...b/c he missed my birthday...should I call a truce?

We've been friends for 6 yrs, he's been/was like a best friend 2 me, when my b-day came around I didn't hear from him until 5 PM %26amp; it was 2 say he wasn't goin out 4 my b-day, I said did U get called 2 work (b/c he was on call), he said no, I asked why, he said do U want the truth or a lie? He said that he was goin out 4 someone else's b-day, someone he's known 4 less time but was goin 2 what he considers a better time. Top it off, the other b-day girl is married %26amp; she is never goin 2 give him a piece...my boyfriend says well most guys would leave the friend behind 2 chase a piece of a**...I'm sorry that doens't fly w/me! He didn't try 2 make it up by calling %26amp; saying hey, I'm sorry can we go out 2 dinner or something 2 make it up 2 U, instead he txt me sayin when UR done bein mad give me a call! OK yes, I'm 29, holding grudges is probably childish %26amp; we tend 2 ignore ea other when out w/friends %26amp; its been since July ...but I'm still faced with why should I approach him %26amp; let it go.

Haven't spoken to a really good friend in months...b/c he missed my birthday...should I call a truce?
You got a man, he wanted a lady. Maybe even if he couldn't have hit that, he wanted to meet a new group of people to explore his options. He's 29. He might want to settle down. His group of friends isn't cutting it, he knows yours, so he was just exploring other groups.

that said -- it was a jerk thing to do!!! But at least he was honest about it! Best friends don't lie about it, even if it's going to slap you in the face b/c they're being jerks! So talk it over with your boyfriend, see what he thinks again, try to work it out with your best friend.
Reply:I think you have very high expectations of friends for your birthday. He is your friend, not your boyfriend or husband and he has no obligation to "take you out" on your birthday. I am sure if you had a boyfriend you would have "dumped" your friend if your boyfriend was going to take you out for your birthday. Grow up!
Reply:stop over reacting he is not ur man he is just ur friend. get over it sorry to be hush
Reply:just call him and say "your sorry for overreacting but i didn't appreciate it when you chose to go to someone else's party"
Reply:That is a stupid reason....

geranium

C is ur friend , S is c ' s friend....but u dont have any friends ..how it is possible?

when it can possible?

C is ur friend , S is c ' s friend....but u dont have any friends ..how it is possible?
Is 'D' invisible?
Reply:c is my friend, s is my friends c's friend and u dont have any friends.

so what do they call me?
Reply:because i am # 1 thats why none of the alphabets like me and they dont like to be my friends help plzzzzzzz
Reply:when they like u
Reply:because U is not Ur's friend...
Reply:someone can be your friend even if you are not their friend. :)
Reply:When you live in India.
Reply:if u are '

i'm not very sure is dis a joke, lol

My friend invited me to c her webcam how do i accepted it?

my friend invited me to c her webcam how do i accepted it

My friend invited me to c her webcam how do i accepted it?
An invitation will pop up on your screen. Click 'Yes' and her webcam will pop up...then opens up and you will view your friend.

My best friend is jealous b/c i have the perfect life(i know it's long, but it's important, i need ur help!)?

My best friend is jealous b/c i have the perfect life?

ok, i saw her today at church, and she was really sad. we knew each other ever since we were little, like in the early 90s!!! my mom and her mom were best friends. anyway, she looked really terrible today at church and i was her closest friend over there, so i asked what's wrong. she was really agressive and told me to get lost. i was concerned so i asked my other freind to ask her whats wrong. she said that i have the perfect life, perfect boyfriend, perfect grades for college this year and the perfect family. the worse thing is...all of this is true.

my life IS perfect. my grades are high, my mom and dad loves each other SO much, my boyfriend is her crush ever since she was little, my life IS perfect. i dont wanna rub it in b/c..my bff Eva (thats her name), had the worst. Her parents divorced when she was 9, her mom abusived and hit her, she almost got raped by her stepfather, she was at the hospital a few months ago for attemtping suicide, she really has dangerous low self esteem.

My best friend is jealous b/c i have the perfect life?
wow. just keep having a perfect life thats great but be nice to everyone, imagine how they feel. be nice to your friend from church because she has a hard life.
Reply:Hi miley bff,

I understand her feelings perfectly. It's hard to be happy for someone if you yourself aren't happy. The easiest trigger for jealousy is when you see that one thing you want most belonging to someone else. And you have plenty of things she wanted so badly. Just like what you experienced, there will be days when she will be angry at you for no particular reason. Just be more understanding of her plight. When she yells at you, bear in mind that it's not you she's mad at, it's simply her jealous-personality taking over her. Be a good friend to her %26amp; show her more compassion. Stretch your patience longer with her because she's all you're not. And that's a very difficult thing for someone to deal especially if you're in constant contact. You can't blame her if she makes comparison. You're more blessed than her %26amp; be thankful for that. The least you can do is show understanding %26amp; love. Be her true friend. Knowing her better can help you understand more about what life is all about at the other end of the rainbow.
Reply:id say leave her alone...if she is being rude to you. you dont deserve being yelled at. but talk to her after she calms down...thats is, only if she does.
Reply:dont let her make u feel bad its ok u have a nice life and good things instead of feeling bad just be thankful and doesnt bring anything up to her act normal and let her know ur there for her
Reply:wow i'm so sad for your friend! that must be really tough. You should continue to support her and help her out by reminding her that she will get through this. What she really needs is a friend and you can help her by being there for her. Make sure she knows that she can always count on you. I know that you said that she was really rude to you but just give her time because eventually she will come around. For now, just remind her that you are there if she ever needs to talk. Once she realizes how much you care about her, she will be thankful for such a good friend.

sweet pea

My best friend is jealous b/c i have the perfect life(i know it's long, but it's important, i need ur help!)?

Has anyone ever met kendall(Cj's sister)friend "C" on San Andreas??

If so,can you tell where you met them?

Has anyone ever met kendall(Cj's sister)friend "C" on San Andreas??
No, I have not. I am sorry.

My friend, C.A. Pillary told me the doctor was being vein arteries gone back to his clinic?

"He's a bloody scab", he said, "And I don't like his type at all - he ought to be transfused to another hospital". Do you agree?

My friend, C.A. Pillary told me the doctor was being vein arteries gone back to his clinic?
I think he`s a BLEEDIN` CLOT and..... I`m sure he`s having an affair with VENA. (you know the one whose husband is a CORPUSCLE in the army) He aORTA leave her alone before he breaks her HEART or his wife FLOW finds out. I gather he likes to CIRCULATE in high places, and I hear he WOUNDS down by PUMPING iron, and watching his new PLASMA tv that he was CELLed by LOCUMS Lectricals last month.
Reply:You have to b positive in this situation. A group of you should take him for a pint. Don't be so negative. You need to iron this out..have a heart to heart.........don't cell yourself short.
Reply:It appears to me that the Doctor is being pilloried by your friend! I think he should find another Doctor who he is attracted to.

A case of CA Pillary attraction!
Reply:UR FRIEND IS AN IDIOT

rose

Friend A, mockingly puts down Friend B, why does Friend C get annoyed and mock friend A?

Because Friend A is acting like a bully and not like a friend. When someone like Friend A is being a hypocrite they need to be called out and put in their place. Then maybe they will realize that just saying you are someone's friend is not enough but you need to really be a friend and everything you do should be friendly. It's all about loyalty, I think.

Friend A, mockingly puts down Friend B, why does Friend C get annoyed and mock friend A?
it's natural that friend c jumps to their friend's defence
Reply:Friend C is a good friend of Friend B, and I guess defends Friend B from people, like Friend A

That's how friendship goes, i guess.
Reply:To show allegiance to friend B.
Reply:perhaps friend a needs to see that friendship does not work that way.certainly friend a is not very friendly to friend b and friend c apparently does not like that . Objectivity is ok , but put downs don;t help. when mocking is done it could be done in a humorous way or in a cruel way.so in the way of humor it would i think maybe be that friend a could still be a friend to friend b and friend c maybe didn't recognize that. but in the way of meaning the mocking in a cruel way friend a would then not be a friend to friend b and friend c righfully should be annoyed and chooses to mock friend a (not that mocking is necessarily correct behavior) Cleary friend a and b and c need to compare notes,( ha, whoops didn't mean to mock!)comingonthrusthename
Reply:Someone needs to defend the weak and to help try and redress the imbalance
Reply:lemme guess, you are friend A? perhaps your putdowns are not so playful as you would like to think.
Reply:Excellent answer Unix right to the point. Friend C can pick up on the real issue behind the mockery, and knows it ain't friendly.
Reply:if Friend C knew both people maybe they sided with whoever they felt was right

My Friend :C...............................

ok...when I was in school for 5 years I was friends with this girl best mates but she used to be really mean to me but we still had some top laughs together...now 3 years on I haven’t really thought about her but when we left in early 2006 apparently she missed me, and its only really today that I have cried when I thought of the fun we had I haven’t laughed like the way I used to back then ever since I left school...but now I think that maybe she has moved on. What should I do??

My Friend :C...............................
Finds some new friends.

My best friend is jeleous b/c my other best friend in my grade i have known as long as her is playing with me?

She plays with me a lot more b/c she is in my grade, my other best friend isn't. My friend in my grade lives by me a little bit closer. I enjoy playing with her. My older bff hates her! what do i do?

My best friend is jeleous b/c my other best friend in my grade i have known as long as her is playing with me?
i can honestly tell you if this is the only thing you ever have to worry about you are lucky. think of it like that.
Reply:GET RID OF THE OLDER CONTROLING FRIEND STICK WITH WHO YOU KNOW IS YOUR BEST FRIEND YOU KNOW WHO IT IS YOU HAVE SAID IT TWICE THE ONE IN YOUR GRADE THAT LIVES BY YOU DO NOT LET THIS OTHER GIRL CONTROL WHO YOU HANG WITH
Reply:i say that if she doesnt accept the fact that you have other friends than her or is jealous b/c you hang out with her then she's not really worth it.
Reply:maybe there's nothing you can do. you cant force people to like each other. what you can do is refuse to stop being friends with either of them. its what i would do.
Reply:umm how old are u ? am going to get so much thumbs down! i know ! but i want to know how old u are so i can give advice that someone at ur age will understand ! u know what i mean?
Reply:don't worry what other people think hun. If she is friends with you than she will get over it. Just be friends with whoever you like.
Reply:try to talk to her about it. tell her you want to stay friends and you can all be friends together.

Do you think I should give up on going out with friend’s b/c he doesn’t want me to?

My husband says that married woman do not belong in the club. I am 20 years old and never really got done with partying, I want to be a good wife but once in while just go out and have fun with my other married girlfriend. We go out once in a while but when we do he just stands on the wall and watches me the entire night, it’s annoying. Do you think I should give up on going out with friend’s b/c he doesn’t want me to?

Do you think I should give up on going out with friend’s b/c he doesn’t want me to?
Don't ever give up your friends and going out. I have been married for almost 9 years now and my husband and I have been through hell and back. He doesn't like me going to clubs so when I want to go out without him me and my friends will usually go out and have a drink in a resturants bar.

When you want to go a bar/club, take him with you even if he stands on the wall, he will see that you behave yourself and he will eventually trust you.

So, the short answer here is don't give up going out with your friends.

Honey, you are 20 years old, you have a lot of life left in you. Don't give in now or he will expect it from now on and you guys will end up divorced in a few years.

Good luck!
Reply:This is a double edged sword...on one hand...you are married and should not be going out to clubs/bars without your husband...that just makes good sense...on the other...why not do other things with your girlfriend? Dinner...movies?
Reply:No you shouldn't give up going out with friends because your married. HOWEVER, what is at a club that would attract a married woman? Dancing? I know how people dance (bump%26amp;grind and grab%26amp;smack)....how is that appropriate when your married? When I was single and went to clubs all I did was drink and prowl around for a man to take home.

Your married! Find more appropriate outlets to party.
Reply:I think your husband has a point. If you wanted to sow your wild oats, you should have done that before settling down. There are plenty of things to do that don't include partying like a single person.
Reply:pinniethewooh has a point. but i see where ur coming from. 20 is reallllllllly young. i think at that age, you can have husband time, and girl friend time. if ur gonna go to a club and he's not going to dance, i don't think he should even go in the first place. while ur out with ur girl friends, he can go out with his guy friends. just make sure the both of you don't get too crazy while ur apart. have trust in each other and you should have a nice, longlasting relationship :)
Reply:If you are going out with other married women, I would not feel guilty about it at all. It sounds like he has a control issue, and once you give in to it, you may find yourself to be very unhappy.
Reply:ur husband is so selfish...going out with friends is not bad ....don't give up girl u need to enjoy too try to talk with ur husband...

flowering plum

WHATS UP WITH her C@ck blocking fat friend!?!??!!?

heres a brief scenerio: Im at the club I see this fine girl, as i approach her I notice my worst fear that every guy at the club faces, THE C@CK BLOCKING FAT FRIEND!!! So, i take a heavy swag of my beer and enter the battlefield in pursuit of the pink taco. Thanks to Maxim magazines techniques and advice, i was ready for action, One strategy is for the wing man to take one for the team, another one is focus more conversation time to the fat friend, so the hot girl will think your a nice guy and not shallow and the fat friend will approve of you. There are many techniques you can use... But why put us through all this?! Because the last thing we want to hear is the fat friend saying she wants to go home, and automatically the hot girl that your rappin to immidiately listens to c@ck block girl, leaving you playing with the skin flute at the end of the night. Also why do hot girls bring the fat friend out? So she can stand out being the hottest????

WHATS UP WITH her C@ck blocking fat friend!?!??!!?
It's really too bad you feel this way. If I were approached by someone I was willing to talk to, I would not let any of my friends stand in my way. Maybe the fact that you are too shallow for the "pink taco" is why you notice the "fat friend." We aren't friends with people because they weigh a certain amount, we are friends with them because of there character. If your just lookin for a hook up, maybe approach the hussy without a clue. She should be shallow enough to talk to you. Best wishes!
Reply:HAHAaa because the fat c@ckblocker is smart %26amp; disease free ;) You have excellent writing skills...amusing!
Reply:...are you ok?
Reply:no ur a pig and maybe she the girl has a heart and is not shallow like you and likes her friend for her and dont think she is fat! keep an attitude like this and you will continue to go home and beat your meat alone!

Wat should i do b/c my friend jordyn likes the same guy as me?

seee his name is brad and he is sooooooo hot and has a nice personality but me and my friend both like him she baisically drools over him she almost like has a picture of him on her wall should i become obsessived like her or more to the normal extent

Wat should i do b/c my friend jordyn likes the same guy as me?
well if i was you, i would step back. i really wouldnt want to ruin my friendship because of some guy i like OR you could tell her you like him too and whoever he ends up choosing btw u 2...if so..its not going to ruin ur gyz relationship under wateva circumstances.if she agrees,she is then a true friend and if not...shes not. i hope that helped ;-)

At times, i feel like i can't tell my best friend things b/c i feel that she may not understand...?

for instance, when she told me that her brother told her that he wants 2 break up w/ me, i got mad at first...later, i cried when i went home...i cried 4 two days and for some reason, i am not over my ex b/c i really miss him and it's hard bein' happy on outside but heartbroken on the inside...2day in counseling @ school, i told my counselor about my relationship and the way i feel about myself, whatnot...i just broke down b/c i'm in pain and tellin' my friend somethin' like i cried that her brother dumped me and why i was upset, she could never really understand...

At times, i feel like i can't tell my best friend things b/c i feel that she may not understand...?
don't tell her. i have two bffs and i don't tell them who i like cause they'll judge him and will never understand that i like them. i'm sorry you and her brother broke up. :(

My friends are only friends with me b/c of a mutial friend...i know confusing?

well i started a new year @ a new school, after being homeschooled, so when gr.10 came around, i was excited to meet new friends, but theres a problem with that. see my bff who went to this new school, is like the most attention needy person i know, so all of my friends ignore me when shes around, and i feel so out of the loop with things, like she will get invited to things, and then she will have to invite me along, b.c i rarely keep in contact with these friends. i am also very shy around people who carry convos well, like i wont want to compete when sum1 talks. there are so many times when i have things in common w/these people, but i never get the courage to say ne thing, so no one knows NETHING about me. how could i get more talkative and open to my friends. like i just feel so overshadowed by my one friend. what do i do?

My friends are only friends with me b/c of a mutial friend...i know confusing?
You will not grow as long as you are in the shade of your friend's limelight. Set a goal for yourself of participating in at least one conversation that has to do with you and your preferences/likes/etc... this week. Then next week, do it again and maybe add another. You can do this! Ask your friend to help you, maybe?

Try making a new friend on your own, as well.

Good luck!
Reply:I hope things have improved for you. Report It

Reply:How can you be friends with someone you know nothing about? You can't. Her friends can't do it either. Get to know one person at a time, not a group. Choose someone you feel comfortable with. Talk with that person, get to know him/her, that is what a friend is for, isn't it?
Reply:first you need to strat talking.maybe you should have a party for invite them over and learn things about them.

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How do i c my friend code in pokemon pearl?

in pokemon pearl i cant figure out wat my friend code is where is it and how do i find it

How do i c my friend code in pokemon pearl?
you gotta be connected to the wifi. to do that go to the Nitendo WfC settings which is when your about to start your adventure then go to the Nitendo connnection settings, go to connection one, press search for an access point and then pick a connection and do a test connection to b sure it works then go downstairs in the pokemon center a lady will automatically give u ur pal pad and then go to ur bag, go to key items click on the pal pad, it will say check friend roster, register friend code, or ( your name)'s code. click name's code and it will give it to u.
Reply:To obtain a friend code, you must have it registered in your Pal Pad. Plus, you must get a code from another copy of Diamond or Pearl. You can look around this website for friend codes.
Reply:oh thats easy . Go to you bag and select the special items slot. Go to pal pad and select use. There will be a new screen and click the bottom button and there will be a code that lokes like this exaple.(0000 0000 0000). Thats your code. Hope this helps.
Reply:go downstairs in a pokecenter and talk to one of the ladies by the door thing. save and go in the door and u'll get ur friend code. once u get it, to see it u must go to your pal pad in you bag in the key items pouch.

I need help b/c my friend hasn't really been talking to me much so help pleas!?

me and my friend have been friends for 8 years and she is 4 years older than me and lately scine she started high school we havent been talking much and i dont even know to talk to her about any more.then i been feeling like there r ceartin things i dont want to tell her and i dont want to hang out with her anymore but i want our friendship to last.and its not all my fault cuz when ever we talk all she talks about is how her and her ~new~boyfriend r doing and the guys that want to hook up with her.and she makes herslef sound kinda sluty but how should i keep her as my friend but with out us being that boring no matter the age seperation?

I need help b/c my friend hasn't really been talking to me much so help pleas!?
"there r ceartin things I dont waht to tell her" is your frist mistake she is your friend of 8 years and your keeping secerts! Second she is in highschool this is the hardest, stress filled, and identy crisis time a person can go thru. Give her a break. Espacially if she is actting all sluty let her know thats what you feel. Maybe she needs to hear it. It would seems whats really going on her is you insecurities about knowing what she is going thru since she is in highschool now... the other is that your friend is hitting the time of her life when sex is an issue, while your still "hopfully" fighting with it as an issue. So your fundemental on different plans socially. And since your not being as honesty emotionally with her your lossing that ground you guys use to have when she was younger. Ether way its natural, it happens, and you might want to accept giving yourselves some space tell your both a little bit more comfrontable with talking about how you feel. Your no longer peers any more but that doesn't mean you concentrate on that, time to remeber the purpose that kept you guys together in the frist place, or watch new purposes tear you apart.... namly, hopfully it was for the love you guys had for each other....

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?

we're 14 in london.. basically, yesterday 2 muggers around 2 years older than us tried mugging us.. my friend told me to follow him in a shop so we stay safe, the security guard helped us get home safely. next day, he changes his screenname to "Im so smart! i saved mine and bobs life today!". now that didnt bother me.. but when he makes up stuff about me pee'ing myself and fainting %26lt;- never happened ( he was MUCH more scared than me ). that REALLY annoyed me.. i came on msn and atleast 3 people laughed at me saying about how much of a p*ssy i was.. this guy was like my best friend.. so i had a huge 30 min argument with him on msn, and basically, we really hate the crap out of eachother. we do work experience in BOOTS together. we wanted to work with eachother to keep us entertained and stuff like that. tomorrow, i see him again, but how should i act? i wanna just not speak to him forever, but i cant do that to my best friend.. HOW SHOULD I ACT WHEN I SEE HIM TOMORROW? :%26lt; :%26lt; :%26lt;

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?
its the internet.. its not really REAL ya know?

What is friend funcation in c++?

what is the friend funcation?in c++?

What is friend funcation in c++?
Any data which is declared private inside a class is not accessible from outside the class. A function which is not a member or an external class can never access such private data. But there may be some cases, where a programmer will need need access to the private data from non-member functions and external classes. C++ offers some exceptions in such cases.

A class can allow non-member functions and other classes to access its own private data, by making them as friends.

http://www.codersource.net/cpp_tutorial_...
Reply:Declaring a function as "friend" means anything in the same namespace can see it and use it.

"private" means only things in the same class can see or use the function.

"public" means everything can see or use the function.
Reply:its used to use the one classes member variables to use in another class

Friend functions

Sometimes a function is best shared among a number of different classes. Such functions can be declared either as member functions of one class or as global functions. In either case they can be set to be friends of other classes, by using a friend specifier in the class that is admitting them. Such functions can use all attributes of the class whichnames them as a friend, as if they were themselves members of that class.

A friend declaration is essentially a prototype for a member function, but instead of requiring an implementation with the name of that class attached by the double colon syntax, a global function or member function of another class provides the match.

class mylinkage {

private:

mylinkage * prev;

mylinkage * next;

protected:

friend void set_prev(mylinkage* L, mylinkage* N);

void set_next(mylinkage* L);

public:

mylinkage * succ();

mylinkage * pred();

mylinkage();

};

void mylinkage::set_next(mylinkage* L) { next = L; }

void set_prev(mylinkage * L, mylinkage * N ) { N-%26gt;prev = L; }

Friends in other classes

It is possible to specify a member function of another class as a friend as follows:

class C {

friend int B::f1();

};

class B {

int f1();

};

It is also possible to specify all the functions in another class as friends, by specifying the entire class as a friend.

class A {

friend class B;

};

Friend functions allow binary operators to be defined which combine private data in a pair of objects. This is particularly powerful when using the operator overloading features of C++. We will return to it when we look at overloading.

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Close friend has HEP C and will be treated next week...does anyone know....................?

I just found out a very close friend of mine has hep C and is going for treatment next week. He had a biopsy several weeks ago and the doctor has told him that he has to take a pill twice a day and an injection for 6 weeks/treatment -. He also says that the doctor has indicated - after a 6-week treatment, it is possible the disease will go into remission and may be cured? Does anyone know any information about treatment, and remission, and what I should expect when he is undergoing treatment. What else can I do to help him out other than offer encouragement and emotional support?? Any information you can provide will be great! Thanks!

Close friend has HEP C and will be treated next week...does anyone know....................?
Continue to support this regime of treatment that is scientifically sound and medically proven. Don't let him fall for any mumbo-jumbo herbal/homeopathic/naturopathic/etc. miracle cures.
Reply:Your friend has chronic Hep C it may go into remission but he Will not be cured ..You came her for information but there is so much you both need to know about HepC and the treatment or non treatment.The best thing for you to do for him would be to find a Hep C support group. If you could get him to go and for you to go also. If he does not want to go then you go.I hope you both go.I hope he understands how to read his biopsy and with an educated mind he then makes the best decision for him You Will meet other Heppers and get the best information that is out there about HepC

Good Luck
Reply:I have a friend who went through a HepC treatment, but it took almost a year and was one shot per week with daily pills. He became tired and irritable, and very anemic. The good news is that the virus is now gone and has stayed gone for over one year. this is exciting, because how often can modern medicine cure anything? Not very often!

The main thing is to try to keep him upbeat and make sure he gets rest. If he becomes irritable and yells at you, try not to let it hurt your feelings and don't take it personally. I hope the treatment goes well for your friend.
Reply:Hi I knew a girl with Hep C. She started taking a vitamin called Arginex. Apparently it repairs the liver. Anyway, I'm sure it did not cure her...but I know she is doing a lot better.

One of my best friends moved away & my other friend went 2 c her w/o inviting me at all. Should I be mad?

The friend that lives in my town has know my friend that moved two years longer than me but we were all really great friends before she moved. Shelby refused to give me Jenny's number after she moved and I'd asked her everday. You'd think Shelby thinks she's better friends with her b/c she bragged about going and saying how much fun it will be, but not one time did she ask me if I wanted to go or gave me Jenny's number so that I could talk to the family about it. It really makes me angry but I don't want to be b/c they did have a great time. I just feel like Shelby didn't want me to go. What do you guys think?

One of my best friends moved away %26amp; my other friend went 2 c her w/o inviting me at all. Should I be mad?
No you shouldn't be mad it is not they fault you didn't go...
Reply:yes you should be mad b/c she is just tring to be a better friend i guess and shes tring to make you feel all bad i guess cause you cant see her.
Reply:that kinda question if u guys were really friends or were she just really put tin on a show i definitely ask her about that.good luck
Reply:Maybe she doesn't want you to stay friends with her. possibly the friend that moved doesn't like you and told Shelby not to give you her numbers, or maybe she is trying to make you jealous because she stayed friends with her and u didn't.

My friend owns a C Corp and he wants to add my name to the checking account that will be opened today. Also,?

My friend owns a C Corp and he wants to add my name to the checking account that will be opened today. Also, he wants to get a $50k unsecured credit line. What does that mean? If he borrows it thru the corp but thru my name on the c corp checking account will it effect my credit? What if he doesn't pay it back? He claims because it is unsecure it is thru a corp and not thru him?

My friend owns a C Corp and he wants to add my name to the checking account that will be opened today. Also,?
You can be help relable for the loan also as long as your name is on the account and also if he puts you on as a secondary lender beleive me I know my husband did this to me and I had to pay even though I didn't sign anything and we were seperated at the time and will be divorced on Dec. 7th

My friend has hep c and i am scared to death?

IMy friend has just been diagnosed as having hep c and I am scared of catching it even though I know it is hard. I am also terrified of the illness effects on her and the treatment sounds scary also. Is it possible to clear hep c and for it to never return with treatment? can people live ordinary lives or is liver failiure inevitable? how can I help her with this? my boyfriend wants me to stay away from her as he is scared of getting it. i am not planning on doing this.

My friend has hep c and i am scared to death?
It is unfortunate that the health system in the US is so politically correct that this question requires answers from others. First of all HCV (Hepatitis C Virus) is spread only by blood / blood contact. This makes it both harder, and easier to spread, than you might think.

Sexual contact will NOT, under normal conditions, cause infections. Rough sex (where blood is shed), and unprotected anal sex are the exceptions. Normal sexual activities (including oral sex) would spread infection only if there were open sores(ie bleeding gums, menses, cuts, etc.) on both parties to allow blood / blood contact. US medical community finally did a definitive study and determined that what HCV carriers have said all along, blood / blood contact only, was correct.

Do not use HCV carriers hairbrush, toothbrush, nail clippers, or razor. All of these items may contain trace amounts of blood from mosquito bites scratched open, bleeding gums, trimming of an ingrown nail, or nick from razor. Like I said only trace amounts of blood products, but that's all it takes.

If you snort (inhale through nose) drugs, do NOT use same straw, bill, etc. as anyone else. It is a recognized point of entry when a HCV carrier snorts coke, etc. they leave small amounts of blood serum on straw, especially if they are a regular user with burned up nasal passages. This serum is often passed on the straw. Injection is it's own problem, if someone is into that they will probably not pay much attention to anything someone says and will end up with HCV, or worse.

Don't hit someone unless you know they aren't a HCV carrier. We were told as kids that hitting is bad, well it's really bad if you split someone's lip and cut yourself on a tooth. So be careful of hotheads with anger management issues, bruises and cuts may be the least of what you can get from them.

Then there is always my favorite method, exposure to dried blood products. This virus is a tough little SOB! Days after a blood droplet has dried up, the HCV can still be picked up off the surface of whatever it has dried on. Rubber gloves and at least 15% bleach solution are mandatory for cleaning surfaces that may have blood products from a HCV carrier. If you get stabbed by a splinter that seems to be in a position where others would have been likely to get stabbed, encourage blood flow out of wound for a short time. Then treat as you would otherwise. It is somewhat less likely for you to get HCV that way. Not a large difference, but every little bit helps.

There is NO cure at this point, if someone says they are cured they are confusing clear, with cured! The Red Cross will not accept blood products from anyone who has had HCV. There is no cure, it's like cancer, it can go into remission for the rest of someone's life, but it is not considered cured.

Tell your friend to beware of quacks with snake oil cures. There may be some homeopathic cures available, but they have not been tested. Be leery if someone offers instructions on how to make your own cure, run it past a hepatologist / gastroenterologist before using. At least it's free, and they are probably sincere in their beliefs. Beware of those who want to sell you a product. There's nothing worse than some SOB trying to prey on another's fear for their life. Some CURES have been found to be harmful to the liver, and when your liver is already struggling with HCV it can develop into liver failure rapidly.

Now for the good news! Stay away from likely sources of blood / blood contact and you will NOT catch HCV. It is also important to remind yourself, and your friend, that roughly 85% of HCV carriers die WITH the disease, NOT FROM it.

HCV is not an automatic death sentence. With precautions a fairly normal life can be lived. I have two kids in their 20's and my second marriage has produced two more, both under 12. None of the kids has HCV, and neither my ex or my current spouse has it. I, on the other hand, have had it for about 30 years
Reply:Homeopathic treatment for Hepatitis C/B Liver Cirrhosis :-

1.SULFUR 30

2.BRYONIA 30

3.CARDUUS MARIANUS in Q (Mother Tincture)

4.CHELIDONIUM MAJUS in Q (Mother Tincture)

5.LYCOPODIUM 1M(1000)

Take remedy 1 and 2 thrice a day half hour before meals followed by 20 drops each of 3 and 4 half hour after meals together in a half a cup of hot water and take 5 after a week of taking the above regularly just one dose a week. Avoid Chocolates, Coffee, Mints and Red Meat while taking Homeopathic Medicines and avoid all foodstuffs, which gives you constipation at all costs.

If there is any ambiguity about the dosage or the potency of the medicine please ask me before doing anything.

And keep me posted about your progress at least every three days.

It would be better if you send me the details of the patient exactly the way he or she feels not the doctors Diagnosis let the patient describe their own feeling exactly the way they are feeling the above will clear all in any case but it would be lots better if you send complete details.

Take Care and God Bless you!
Reply:If you are close to her, then you don't want to abandon her. But talk to her doctor to see if there is any kind of meds you can take to keep from getting it. Do some research on the internet to find out more info. Try www.webmd.com.
Reply:You need to talk to your physician or a local clinic

Here is a link with good info

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/90/...

It can be spread by:

Having sex with an infected person without a condom (though experts don't know if condoms prevent transmission or just reduce it).

Sharing drugs and needles.

Being cut by infected needles (health care workers).

Birth from a mother to a child.

Hepatitis C is not spread through food, water, or by casual contact.
Reply:Don't turn your back on your friend, she needs you more now than ever. As for getting Hep C easy, there are simple and easy precautions to observe that prevent it from being passed on. Just remember that your friend needs your support, she probably feels very alone and scared right now. One of the best things to do is just be supportive and reassure her that you will be her friend through it. There is treatment that works, and liver failure is not inevitable and she probably be able to live a long and productive life.
Reply:Hep C is only transmitted blood-to-blood. So it is pretty unlikely you will "catch it" from her. YOu need to be supportive for her if you care about her at all- people with Hep C don't seem to get a lot of sympathy, unlike people with other serious diseases.

You should be helping her to cope with it by encouraging her to eat well and get lots of rest, she needs to keep her strength up.

Yes, it's possible to completely cure, but results vary from one case to the next, and in some people, the virus never completely clears from the system, although it will be greatly diminished and allow her to lead a fairly normal life.

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Loosing a gud friend forever only b/c u didnt giv him ur contact no.?

I lost a friend yesterday....b/c i couldnt give him my contact no., we were net friends, and now he said that he cannot remain my net friend anymore....i cant giv him my contact no., coz im not allowed by my parents to talk to guys on the fone, and i myself dont wanna give him my no., but i dont even wanna loose a very gud friend.....

seriously what shall i do?, i dun wanna talk wid him secretly coz i respect my parents and i wanna obey them....and he says that he's not goin to talk wid me anymore until i give him my no.

shall i stop talking to him?....i seriously dun wanna loose a very gud n helpful friend forever....how shall i make him understand....he's not ready to listen to me anymore!

Loosing a gud friend forever only b/c u didnt giv him ur contact no.?
Have you told him that you respect your parents and they asked you not to pass out the number- if so and he has continued to ask for it- he does not respect you and your family decission not to hand out this information.If a phone number is all that is going to break this friendship, then you're better off without him.

My friends A and B are a couple.Live/wor... together.Friend A is having sex with my friend C also works there.

Should I tell my friend B for her sake? I know I should stay out of it but I just think it's wrong.Very difficult because we all work at the same place and they're all good friends.

My friends A and B are a couple.Live/wor... together.Friend A is having sex with my friend C also works there.
Friend A friend B friend C ?

hmmm. okie. lets do this mathmetithically.

Get all of your friends together........

ADD ........ a bed.

SUBTRACT ...your clothes.

DIVIDE......your legs.

and...MULTIPLY.

EVERYONE IS HAPPY.

.
Reply:you shouldn't stay out of it. tell A that either she needs to end it with C, or tell A the truth, or you will.

you have a moral obligation to try and keep your friends on the right path.
Reply:Stay away from messes like that --- be friends and leave it at that ---it's going to blow up in their faces one day --- seen that happen a lot!
Reply:I would stay out of it, look surprised when it blows over and be supportive. But I do understand that the line there is blurry. Meddling will never leave you unharmed though, even if it is in the best intention
Reply:Save B from getting hurt.
Reply:yah tell her, but try to get proof first so she cant blow you off
Reply:yup. then bang her while she cries on your shoulder
Reply:wow... thats a hard one, think about how you would feel if that was being done to you? wouldnt you want your friend to tell you? i would talk to friend A about whats going on. try to make him/her make their mind on who they care for. if he/she doesnt do anything about it let friend A know that youll tell friend B because you dont want them getting hurt.
Reply:Seems like that's the way of the new world, everyone sleeping with everyone. Truthfully it's not your business, but depending on how you feel towards A,B,%26amp;C I'd say have them all meet up together, in a common place, and see how they interact outside of the job. Then make a decision based off of their attitude and body language.
Reply:its a difficult question to answer. i think that you shouldnt tell but hint at it without actually saying anything. but seriously, dont take anyones advice here. you REALLY have to make this decision on your own.

My friends A and B are a couple.Live/work together.Friend A is having sex with my friend C also works there.?

Should I tell my friend B for her sake? I know I should stay out of it but I just think it's wrong.Very difficult because we all work at the same place and they're all good friends.

My friends A and B are a couple.Live/work together.Friend A is having sex with my friend C also works there.?
You will be hated by all of them if you get in the middle of this situation. It will all come out without your interference. You can be there to help pick up the pieces, that is what friends do.
Reply:Bite your tongue as much as you can, it is not your task to tell these things. Besides, for all you know friends a, b and c know of eachother and have an arrangement or something.
Reply:Get involved and have a mass orgy. If you can't beat them...
Reply:Best to stay out of it. It looks like a potentially explosive situation, and you don't want to be in the middle of it
Reply:Do you like A??
Reply:you will lose your job and create workplace stress. why don't you just stay the f*%26amp;k out of it, loser.
Reply:As much as you want to tell I recommend not doing so becuase it is in the workplace. If anything talk to A and tell them to curtail it because many people know and it will leak out. Who knows there is a chance that B knows already. Also possible that A and B are having other issues. Don't stick your nose in farther
Reply:since both A and B are ur frnds...u have some responsibilities. u have to teach A a lesson and bring him/her to the right track. u also have to tell everything to B becoz he/she is being betrayed.
Reply:You should talk to A first. Tell him/her that you know and you don't think it's right to do this to B without telling her. Tell A that you are telling B unless he/she does.
Reply:you should tell her or she might end up finding out the hard way so i would say the sooner the better "good freinds don't do that stuff"

Y can't my friend c me in messenger?

we will b imming, %26amp; then all of a sudden he won't c me type %26amp; wants 2 no wr i am. apparently im still available. he has internet explorer on an old comp that freezes a lot. wt's wrong?

Y can't my friend c me in messenger?
If your friend can't see your IMs, tell him to do any of the following -

%26lt; Try "signing out" and "signing in" your Yahoo Messenger a couple of times....

%26lt; If the problem persists, while "Signed Out" to Yahoo Messenger - alt + ctrl + del your Yahoo Messenger and "Sign In" again.

%26lt; Reboot his computer and sign in to YM again.

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Where are some nice places to go in D.C. with a friend?

This Saturday me and a friend had plans to go skating. I just found out today the rank is no longer open. Can someone tell me some good places to go in D.C. on a Saturday? I was thinking about the waterfront.

Can my family get ill if they are exposed to hep c from a friend?

A friend of ours asked us if we could rent a room to his girlfriend. he lives in a mobile home which is very small. I said ok and she just told us that she has hep c. I am a retired nurse and know all about hep c,and i have all the shots from working in hospital, but is there any thing I need to do to protect my family?

Can my family get ill if they are exposed to hep c from a friend?
Yes - be very careful to not have any blood contact. This means to make sure that you do not use razors, toothbrushes, etc after each other. I highly doubt you would in this situation and you should be fine. Just think ahead about not sharing anything that you wouldn't share with a sick person.
Reply:YES THEY CAN KEEP THAT FRIEND AWAY!
Reply:If you are a nurse, you should know there aren't any shots for Hep C.

There are shots for Hep A and Hep B.

Why do Roman Catholics worship Mary more than Jesus - I am genuinely curious. I have a R.C. friend and someti

sometimes envy her complete belief in the Holy Mother.

Why do Roman Catholics worship Mary more than Jesus - I am genuinely curious. I have a R.C. friend and someti
if you ask something of mary , are you not then praying to her ...??
Reply:Like many Anglicans I understand the request for Mary to pray for them but think it distracts from the fact that according to St Paul we already have an Advocate in Christ himself. This does not discount to importance of Mary Mother of Christ but it puts emphasis in the correct place
Reply:I assume you're referring to the old "pray to Mary" misconception. Pay close attention, and you'll actually *hear* Catholics asking Mary to pray FOR them, much like you might ask a friend or relative (alive or dead) to pray for you.

Many Christians believe Mary, the Saints, and Jesus are alive and well spiritually in Heaven, and prayer is a spiritual thing.

Catholics don't worship anyone except God. Adoration of Mary/Saints/Jesus are just one of many ways to worship God.

God bless. (notice I didn't say "Mary bless"?)

Have a great Sunday...
Reply:When I was in Catholic school, we never prayed directly to Mary or any of the Saints. The purpose was to ask them to intercede with God on our behalf, but essentially we only prayed TO God. Protestants, especially Southern Baptists, don't seem interested in the explanations, but rather seem to just enjoy the heck out of hating Catholics.
Reply:Christianity, being a male monotheism, has no place for the female gender. But this psychological element will break out in any case. It broke out in Maryology and many people find consolation here.

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Reply:the official roman catholic position is that they worship only god (father, son and holy spirit) but venerate Mary and other saints - veneration meaning that they hold her in high regard and honour, but this is not to be equated with worship
Reply:Sorry, but you are presently guilty of perpetuating one of the biggest myths about Catholicism. Fact is that this simply is not true. For one thing, they don't worship Mary at all. They revere here, but it is more akin to respecting your mother than it is to worship. Secondly, anyone who has spent any time in a Catholic service knows that Jesus is the star of the show. Sounds like you could use to study up more on this if you are really interested.
Reply:NO
Reply:Christianity is the acceptance of Jesus' sacrifice one's behalf as the way to God. That entails accepting that one is unable to save oneself, which is offensive to human pride (and is meant to be). By treating Mary as the way to God, Catholics are encouraged to believe that they can be accepted by God through Mary, bypassing Christ; but this cannot occur, because only the humbling that comes from accepting 'the cross of Christ' will suffice. Because the Catholic message is easy, preserving human pride, it is popular- but it is fatal. No pain, no gain.
Reply:Roman Catholics don't worship Mary, only venerate her. Roman Catholics worship God.
Reply:I've been Catholic my entire life and I'd say it's not true. Mary is not worshiped more than Jesus. Maybe it seems that way because other denominations don't focus on Mary as much? Hard to say.
Reply:Can you imagine a tougher job in the universe than raising the son of God? I didn't think so.
Reply:There is an old theory that when Christians were starting to become a fledgling religion, a local cult that worshiped the earth mother and built statues to her decided to defect to Christianity after their leader went insane. When asked about the statues of the woman, they responded that it was the Virgin Mary.

No proof of this story what-so-ever, but it is silly enough to be true or completly false.
Reply:That is not true, when we pray sometimes we ask the mother of God to pray along with us. And sometimes we ask her to pray for us and our children, and anything else that is worrying us. Then our main prayers are to Jesus asking for help for anything we need.
Reply:For the first 280 years of Christian history, Christianity was banned by the Roman empire, and Christians were terribly persecuted. This changed after the “conversion” of the Roman Emperor Constantine. Constantine “legalized” Christianity at the Edict of Milan in A.D. 313. Later, in A.D. 325, Constantine called together the Council of Nicea, in an attempt to unify Christianity. Constantine envisioned Christianity as a religion that could unite the Roman Empire, which at that time was beginning to fragment and divide. While this may have seemed to be a positive development for the Christian church, the results were anything but positive. Just as Constantine refused to fully embrace the Christian faith, but continued many of his pagan beliefs and practices, so the Christian church that Constantine promoted was a mixture of true Christianity and Roman paganism.

Constantine found that with the Roman Empire being so vast, expansive, and diverse – not everyone would agree to forsake their religious beliefs and instead embrace Christianity. So, Constantine allowed, and even promoted, the “Christianization” of pagan beliefs. Completely pagan and utterly unbiblical beliefs were given new “Christian” identities.

The Cult of Isis, an Egyptian mother-goddess religion, was absorbed into Christianity by replacing Isis with Mary. Many of the titles that were used for Isis, such as “Queen of Heaven,” “Mother of God,” and “theotokos” (God-bearer) were attached to Mary. Mary was given an exalted role in the Christian faith, far beyond what the Bible ascribes to her, in order to attract Isis worshippers to a faith they would not otherwise embrace. Many temples to Isis were, in fact, converted into temples dedicated to Mary. The first clear hints of Catholic Mariology occur in the writings of Origen, who lived in Alexandria, Egypt, which happened to be the focal point of Isis worship.
Reply:They don't. Almost as much, perhaps. Why bother with ANY intermediary though?
Reply:This conception that Catholics worship Mary, is one that most religions think wrong about the Catholics

They [catholics] in simple terms' ask Mary to intercede and pray to the father for help,

Only God can make miracles, Mary is a gateway,

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Reply:I'm not an RC, but my father was raised RC and taught me that he never prayed to Mary, but rather asked her to pray on his behalf.....kind of like asking a pastor to pray for you....he figured, to be chosen as the one worthy to give birth to God's son, she must have a little pull upstairs, so it can't hurt to ask her to look out for you or put a good word in......
Reply:That's a myth. And I'll bet you already knew that.
Reply:Venerate is just another word for worship
Reply:we never worship MAry..thats the truth..

those are just devotions for Mary...

asking for her intercession on our prayers...

every devotions to Mary is still for the glory of God..

Mary is called the Holy Mother because he is the mother of Christ,the Messiah....

the Son of the Living God

and through Him(Jesus),

we became also the children of Mary...
Reply:they don't worship her more than jesus. but they do pray to her. This is because according to the RC faith she was the mother of Jesus- and Jesus is one with God and the Holy Spirit. Also she was the one who stepped on the devil and held him down. She keeps the devil away because he is scared of her. She's responsible for a lot of miracles.

While on Chat From id A one friend appears offline but from ids B & C he appears online.Has he ignored my id A

A B %26amp; C are three different ids of the same person. Some Friend X added earlier on the buddy list of all 3 ids A B C appears offline on A but at the same time appears online to ids B %26amp; C. Has the friend put id A on 'appear offline mode' or put on ignore or deleted.

While on Chat From id A one friend appears offline but from ids B %26amp; C he appears online.Has he ignored my id A
Your name has probably been put on "appear offline" this means you wont see them on

If they deleted your name you would still see them online

If they ignore you they will still show as online on your list
Reply:possible.
Reply:Person X probably signed in as one of the other personas and has A as invisable. I have different ppl that i talk with for each different persona.. so if I want to just have ppl that know me as id B I dont sign in as id A.
Reply:yup. i bet u feel gr8 right now.

cvs

My boyfriend spends time with my ex-best friend & it really hurts b/c she completely betrayed me, What to do?

I was friends with this girl for years and she slept with the first guy I loved right after I left town. I found it in my heart to forgive her but she continued to display signs that she was untrustworthy and a disloyal friend. I ended the relationship with her. Now my boyfriend of 3 and a half years (not the one that slept with her) hangs out with her b/c his best friend and she became friends while she and I were still friends. It really upsets me that he hangs out with her when they were never friends and she hurt me so immensely. He just doesn't understand why I can't be friends with her, someone who hurt me in many ways. How do I make him understand why I can't spend time with her and why I wish he wouldn't either?

My boyfriend spends time with my ex-best friend %26amp; it really hurts b/c she completely betrayed me, What to do?
Who is he kidding that he can't understand this? You made it quite clear, I should think! Back off from him %26amp; tell him why. I hate to say it, but it looks like she could be setting you up again!

Men can be dumb about these things. Still, he ought to care enough about you to listen %26amp; he isn't.Too many men out there-get looking!
Reply:you avoid the both
Reply:Uhh, personally speaking...you need to tell him that this REALLY, REALLY bothers you...and WHY....you need to tell him every reason why you don't trust her any longer..and why you feel the feelings that you do, about him hanging out with her...she has "other agenda's up her sleeve" and you simply cannot trust her...if he needs to see her...it is HIS choice...however,,,it this keeps happening even after you have repeatedly told him...you have two choices...deal with this...(you are gonna have to become just very adult about this...,and or break it off with him...if you can't handle this...)

I made a major mistake...I stayed with a close friend even when my ex-boyfriend had a huge crush on my close friend...she and I went on a trip together to visit him..and he made passes at her,(longer story, trust me) and then, she "claimed he harrassed her...and put him off....) but, in reality...she also let him make the passes at her..and went for it..behind my back, all the while lying to me about the whole secret rondevous..between them...and she has always "claimed" that "all of my boyfriends have "come unto her!" Yeah, right!!! Give me a break, I am no longer that idiotic..to believe such bull! (You get tough, because this friend is probably trying to get in on your honey as well!!!) Be watchful!

Been there, done that!!
Reply:whatever you do, don't get angry with him about it. don't even ever mention it. instead, just try to spend as much time with him as possible, so naturally he would have less time to spend with her. don't try to convince him to not hang out with her anymore, that will just make him angry. instead, act as if you don't mind him spending time with this girl, but as i said before, be with him as much as possible so he can't spend as much time with her.
Reply:I think you just tell him what you have already, tell him the reasoning behind it, why you feel so hurt when he spends time with her. If he doesn't care enough about what his actions are doing to you, then I think you should seriously consider dropping him and moving on. You deserve someone who cares about your feelings, not someone who hears what you have to say and dismisses it and does whatever they want to, no matter how it makes you feel.
Reply:I reckon you should fill your man in on it so he understands you. When you do, he'll understand... after all, he loves you right?

My fiancee's c*ck blocking friend?

My fiancee has a friend that is constantly c*ck blocking and acts like he is in competition for my man's affection, time, energy, etc. We have twins on the way and work different schedules so its hard for us to schedule spending time together or to go out. Whenever we are out somewhere or just chillin in the house, his friend calls and asks what he is doin etc...then proceeds to ask what time he will be done. Take for instance, we went to the movies last weekend, his friend called and asked what he was doing because he wanted to spend some time with him, or hang out. My fiancee told him we were out. He then proceeded to ask my fiancee what time we would be done because he wanted to go to a bar or somewhere with him. My fiancee said around 3. I was pissed. First of all why s he asking what time we will be done, and why did my fiancee even answer the question. It somehow came up yesterday and I told him that he doesnt owe him an explaination where we are going, time done etc. Am I wrong?

My fiancee's c*ck blocking friend?
Sounds like his friend has a girly man crush on your fiancee. That's actually sort of gross. It also shocks me that your husband would defend his friends actions. Your man is engaged to YOU, you have kids on the way and he's more interested in being a designated driver for a grown man that obviously didn't know what a taxi is.

Maybe you should sit down with him and ask him if he's ready for all this. Is he really ready to give up his irresponsible friends for a family? Let him know he needs to make a decision now, his kids will need a father, not a friend, and he needs to start acting like one. Next, ask him if there's anything going on between him and his friend you need to know about. There has to be a reason the guy is so jealous of you, and hates for him to spend time with you.
Reply:No... you are not wrong.
Reply:You need time with your soon to be husband,but your husband also needs time with his friends.

Hes getting ready to be a dad,let him have his fun now,cuz once the kids come,he wont have any freedom at all really.

Tell him that you want to spend monday-friday with him,and that saturday hes free to do whatever he likes.

And Sunday go to church of course. =]

Hope I helped.

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Is anybody there knowing my lost friend michael c. vicedo?pls help.tnx?

i am looking for my long lost friend mr. michael c. vicedo who is currently in florida , usa. i want to communicate with him. thank u in advance.

Is anybody there knowing my lost friend michael c. vicedo?pls help.tnx?
go to the school district he went to ask for info

so if he was at this highschool go there and ask for his name

they will give you info if you look desperate and if you are a girl and explain to them that you lost him.

gardenia

I dont want to be her friend b/c her boyfriend runs her life.Mean?

i want to just do a break down one time about how i really feel.Ive known her since we were like 3 and she met her in high school and he lost her number and i had to give it to him and chew him out for it! lol anyway her daughter she had at 15 and doesnt know which dude fathered it.this was before her bf.so now its 10 years later and 100 guys she slept with later which he knows nothing about and she has another freind that bf doesnt like her leaving and shes under his thumb. i go to strip clubs clubs parties hang out with my girls and all that and she cant b/c he has no life. for my bachelorette party she couldnt even go b/c he came home and everything was payed for and she was really excited until he came. ive only slept with one person other than my husband and everyone knows this,if anything i should be the one who cant hang with her but my husband and i trust each other and have problem with having time for ourselves and time together! she sux and im not sure i wanna be her friend.

I dont want to be her friend b/c her boyfriend runs her life.Mean?
Right now i think she is enjoying the campanion she is with because she has been with so many men and sucks because he is to controling but she may not want to leave him because she doesnt want to be alone so she gives up alot to be with this man not knowing she is losing a friend, I would just talk to her and see what she says, you have to understand she has been with so many people she probably felt used and abused, until now.
Reply:well first of all dont use her as a friend. Just talk to her and if that dont work then leave her alone. U shouldnt post things about her on the internet anyway. Do she know? That can cause a mega argument. U wouldn't want her to talk about you or use you as a friend. 4 real. what is wrong with the world.
Reply:what?

I'm worried about my friend b/c she's afraid to go to sleep...she says she's afraid to die?

About 2 weeks ago, I went to hang out with two friends of mine along with my best friend. I stayed totally sober that night b/c I knew she was going to drink and I knew she'd get messed up, so it was up to me to take care of her. We were playing high %26amp; low...she lost %26amp; had too much to drink. More than she could take %26amp;ended up suffering from a 2-day hangover. While she was vomiting %26amp; falling over that night, I took care of her. Whenever I'd leave, she'd cry. I was afraid to leave her b/c she isn't the most rational drunk person. While I had my back toward her, she slashed her wrist 9times with a knife but didn't go through. I cleaned %26amp; bandaged her up. She told me she did it b/c she was afraid I'd leave her. I told her to go to sleep. I set her on the couch. She passed out a couple of times %26amp; I had to keep 1 hand on her wrist and the other on her neck to make sure she still had a pulse. She was crying and begging to me to not let her go to sleep b/c she would die...what's wrong w/ her?

I'm worried about my friend b/c she's afraid to go to sleep...she says she's afraid to die?
i am not a doctor, so i can not say for sure, but your friend needs help, its a great thing that you were there for her that night, but she has deep issues, its obvious that she needs to see someone to find out about them. tell her that you think it is for the best because if she dies then she is leaving you, and you do not want to lose her! be there for he, she is suffering from something right now. help her, call a dr, or her parents an let her get professional help.
Reply:She shouldn't drink thats whats wrong with her...

Some people when they drink flip out, and she seems like she did, she really should consider staying away from drinking all together...
Reply:If you love her like a best friend should, you should see she gets checked into a hospital immediately.
Reply:Wow, she needs some help.
Reply:She's a drunk who has no business drinking if alcohol affects her that way.
Reply:What's wrong with her? She's got some really crummy friends - including you. Anyone who lets their friends drink to excess is no sort of friend. When someone has a history of alcohol abuse (as you say she does), then there is no friendship in encouraging her to do it again. Not even if you're willing to stay sober %26amp; take care of her. Darned straight you'd better take care of her - because you encouraged her to get this way...Don't expect her to thank you if she lives long enough to sober up!
Reply:It seems that u are obviously gr8 friends and you care about her so hopefully she'll listen to u. YOU HAVE TO STOP HER DRINKING LIKE THAT! She could kill herself as u saw! Talk to her about what u felt that night and how she made u feel, tell her that she should stop drinking and that it could kill her. But before that look at the source i've provided and see what could happen to her and show her.
Reply:she sounds like she has some serious mental problems

she needs to go to the doctor to get that checked out
Reply:If she thought this only because she was drunk then she needs help for her drinking (she needs this anyway) but if she feels this way all the time it could be a symptom of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder which is an anxiety disorder. Either way she really needs help and you can't let her do this to herself if she is your friend.
Reply:She shouldn't drink thats whats wrong with her...

Some people when they drink flip out, and she seems like she did, she really should consider staying away from drinking all together...

and if thats not the case then she definetly has mental problems and should go and see a doctor straight away!!!
Reply:tell her toget over herself
Reply:She's psycho and needs to see a therapist ASAP. Normal people do not try to commit suicide to get their friends' attention!!!
Reply:you describe a classic alcoholic. If you want to be a true friend, get her into treatment....if she won't, you might get her family in on it and do an intervention. But if she remains in denial and continues to drink, you'd best back off the relationship, because she will drag you down with her.
Reply:Take her to psychiatrist for good and some speedy result or she may go insane if no proper treatment taken ! What is her age ?Is any one in her family has suffered this in past?Give her some alprazolam till you take her to Psychiatrist God bless you ! Always YouRsmE
Reply:It sounds like she needs mental help and needs to stay away from drinks. I would take her to a hospital mostly because she is runing her body and she is acting stupid. Just be her friend. Also she wil only die if God will allow it and wants her 2.
Reply:she needs to quit drinking, %26amp; go see a therapist. thats all kinds crazy. u need to get as far away from Crazy as u can get b4 her voodo starts effecting u. RUUUNNNN!!!
Reply:it may be anxiety like a panic attack i sometimes have them before bed i hardly ever sleep because of depression and anxiety i fear that if i go to sleep i will die but if i stay awake i will be fine.....
Reply:that is what my brother is like. She prob. thinks that a burgler or killer is going to come into her house at night to kill her. What my parents do is they just play along and check in his closet and under his bed. bout the hangover, for her birthday, get her the CUTEST stuffed animal ever and on her birthday card write, "one of your wishes granted by me, protection." She'll be less scared to go to bed and she'll always know that you have her back.
Reply:Sounds like she needs help, but one thing she should know is that Jesus is the answer to all her problems I know because Ive been there.

My friend m/c (miscarried) at 8 wk pg. She had D&C & is nervous about 3 WKS FOLLOW UP APPT. What they do / say

My best friend had a missed miscarriage. We moved her into our house to keep her company for now. She will be going to the follow up appt next week, which is 3 wks post the D %26amp; C. She is just nervous about what the follow up appt is all about. THANKS

My friend m/c (miscarried) at 8 wk pg. She had D%26amp;C %26amp; is nervous about 3 WKS FOLLOW UP APPT. What they do / say
The follow-up is just to make sure that she is feeling ok. I was meant to have a follo-up after my d%26amp;c but I never went. I felt good and had no reason to go. I was pregnant 4 months later anyway.
Reply:I misscarried at 11 wks and had a d%26amp;c and then went for an appt about 2 weeks afterwards. Its basically the same kind of check up like your 6 wk after you give birth. They ask you if their is any pain anywhere or if you have any questions. They just want to make sure your body is getting back to normal. They may or may not do a vaginal check(depends on the doctor) but other than that its a relatively quick appt.
Reply:I had the same happen as the lady above. I miscarried at 12 weeks and had dandc and they just make sure everythings ok and see if you have pain, tell her that everything will be fine.

aster

What do u do when the guy u love flirts with your friend b/c your friends *** is bigger?

and i know he is not tring to make u jelouse

and he only does it is b/c my friend has a big *** and he touches her and i feel stupid how do i make him like me

and pay attention too me

and if he likes her when he said no i do i winn him over

What do u do when the guy u love flirts with your friend b/c your friends *** is bigger?
If he only flirts with her because he finds parts or her physically attractive then he sounds pretty shallow to me. Don't bother trying to get him to flirt with you unless you feel like completely changing yourself through plastic surgery or the like. It doesn't sound like he's interested in personality too much. I'd move on, or at least don't bother wasting your efforts on getting him to flirt with you.
Reply:forget him hes a playa and only likes girls for their assets
Reply:Ditch him. You shouldn't have to try so hard to make him like you.
Reply:if the guy you love is doin that, then i don't know why you love him at all. he sounds like an idiot.

you shouldn't even want to win over an ignorant male like that, fukc that. you should be going for someone who treats you with respect and loves you for who you are, not for how big your *** is. that type of man is not going to survive much longer, and if that's the only type of man there was, then humanity would never have come as far as it has.

kick him to the curb, girl. get yourself a real man.
Reply:I think you'd be better off finding someone else...

What do u do when the guy u love flirts with your friend b/c your friends butt is bigger?

Guy backing off b/c of friend?

There is a guy that I know because I am one of his clients. He is very attractive and has been very flirtatious in the recent past. He would always make it a point to come and speak to me whenever I was around. Our relationship is a professional one but I have often thought that it would be different if the situation was different. He expressed to me the other day that one of his co-workers had a "crush" on me and introduced us later on that day. I have not spoken to this coworker since b/c I have not seen him. However, the guy that introduced me to his friend/coworker is much less flirtatious, still very nice but doesn't find me to come and talk, and really just treats me the same as all of his other clients now (this has been going on for 2 days). Will this wear off? Do you think that he is just giving his friend some room, or was he never really interested? I don't understand. I really miss the conversations and special attention. What do you think his story is?

Guy backing off b/c of friend?
Typically if a guy really wants to get to know a girl there is no backing off.

marigold

My friend is in trouble. n im not able to help him. i cant c him sad like that, but im not able to help.?

my frend was in a serious relationship earlier but he had to leave his gf as he was going abroad for studies.n til date he gets upset when v talk about her. now after some time, he started liking a girl.n he told her n they became frends.now dat girl is leaving dat city for studying somewhere else.

my friend is now really upset. he is sad n i just dont understand wat to say.. cos he says sayin dat she was not meant for me n all doesnt take away d sad part.but i just cant c him sad.plz tel me wat shud i say to him dat he tries to move on quickly..he used to be a funny person,but these days..his smile doesnt reach his eyes. he is nt happy frm inside..i cant c my friend like dat..if anyone thinks they can help me out , then pls tel me.. cos i wan to help my friend.he is an awsome person n i just cant bear to see him upset.. ur help wil b appreciated.. he says its a passin phase..but i know its not..he wil nevr be able to forget her, lik he nevr forgot his 1st love..i really care for him.

My friend is in trouble. n im not able to help him. i cant c him sad like that, but im not able to help.?
time will cure everything u just do ur part better..
Reply:THINK you can listen to him but something he has to work though but be there for support
Reply:Well first of all your friend is so lucky to have a friend so caring like you, unfortunatley there isn't much you can do only time can heal broken heart, just try to occupy his time maybe take him out to play pool or to a movie or something to lift his spirits.
Reply:time is the great healer you saw him recover from his first love the same will happen here.
Reply:I have a friend and she went thru a similar situation. All you have to do is talkt o him, but make sure that he doesnt become a whinger who always feels sorry for himself. Get him to go out, do alot of fun stuff. Make him smile for real, that should be your first mission, once he does that even for a split moment, you're on the road to recovery with him.

I must say you're a great friend, one day he will appreciate this. Good luck!
Reply:ur frnd seems to b very sensitive...as he falls so easily and doesnt forget even for second time, it may happen very badly for the first time, its natural!!!!

Well thr is no real solution for it, u need to take him away frm those thoughts, mostly when a person feels like a user....but beware if ur frnd falls for u in all dis proceedings...u r done!! coz he is too sensitive!!

but whatever he is feeling is real, and not dreams, illusion sort of thing. One cant think of good days always!!
Reply:just be there. quit trying to "fix it" and don't feel like you always have to have something to say.

Your friend is going through a very real and rough life right now. The best thing you can do (the only thing you can really do) is just be there. Let them know they can come to you with anything (talking, sharing, a break from thinking of it all, a shoulder to lean on, a listening ear, etc.)

Whatever it is they need at the moment, let them know you're there to help them as best as you can. And then step back, be patient, and let THEM come to you.

Don't leave your friend's side by any means... but sometimes the biggest help someone can recieve from a friend during a time like this is to just have someone that can be there and not expect the world out of them or expect them to be "their old self again"... someone who can just be there, be a friend, and just listen if its needed and also just understand and be willing to give them time.

Take care and may God bless both you and your friend as well as the friendship you both share ((hugs))
Reply:Yes All what u can do for him.

Hugh him, so that he calms down be a good friend . take hime out to some where he 's never been say that the world is not over there is more time for things to happen. and so there are millions of good women out in the world waiting for him . take him out regularly so he forgets . be faraway from sadness..
Reply:eh el haifa dih! there are more serious problems in the world!
Reply:ther really is no telling people wat they shud and shudnt do...... i for example hasnt bn able 2 recover from a breakup and its bn almost two years and i havent dated any1 snce just b w/ him always and try not to make him feel alone, it lessens deppression... {but be carefull not to overdo it } for it can also make him feel too dependent and hopeless......

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?

we're 14 in london.. basically, yesterday 2 muggers around 2 years older than us tried mugging us.. my friend told me to follow him in a shop so we stay safe, the security guard helped us get home safely. next day, he changes his screenname to "Im so smart! i saved mine and bobs life today!". now that didnt bother me.. but when he makes up stuff about me pee'ing myself and fainting %26lt;- never happened ( he was MUCH more scared than me ). that REALLY annoyed me.. i came on msn and atleast 3 people laughed at me saying about how much of a p*ssy i was.. this guy was like my best friend.. so i had a huge 30 min argument with him on msn, and basically, we really hate the crap out of eachother. we do work experience in BOOTS together. we wanted to work with eachother to keep us entertained and stuff like that. tomorrow, i see him again, but how should i act? i wanna just not speak

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?
I understand why you're upset with your friend for sure. He made something up to make himself appear more tough in that situation. It's an experience that you went through together, and unfortunately, he twisted it around, in order to make himself feel better. At this age, a lot of people will sometimes feel the need to make things up about themselves or even about others in order to gain some type of attention. It stems from a lack of confidence, and a need to fit in with others, often. I think that you should try your best to tell your friend that what he did was not fair. Try to say it calmly if you can, or write it online in an email to him. You don't have to say too much, but you can say "I'm very disappointed because i don't understand why you lied about the situation. It was very upsetting when i was being called names by other people, because of what you wrote on line." (The other people who called you names for this were also un-fair as well, and they did it for the same reasons as your friend, insecurity).

It might be best to say it in person, but try to say it calmly if you can. This should make him understand that what he did was wrong and unfair to you, because you are friends. If he does not accept what he has done, and if he repeats this again, you have to be honest and ask yourself if you really want to be his friend in this case. I hope this helps.

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