Haven't spoken to a really good friend in months...b/c he missed my birthday...should I call a truce?

We've been friends for 6 yrs, he's been/was like a best friend 2 me, when my b-day came around I didn't hear from him until 5 PM %26amp; it was 2 say he wasn't goin out 4 my b-day, I said did U get called 2 work (b/c he was on call), he said no, I asked why, he said do U want the truth or a lie? He said that he was goin out 4 someone else's b-day, someone he's known 4 less time but was goin 2 what he considers a better time. Top it off, the other b-day girl is married %26amp; she is never goin 2 give him a piece...my boyfriend says well most guys would leave the friend behind 2 chase a piece of a**...I'm sorry that doens't fly w/me! He didn't try 2 make it up by calling %26amp; saying hey, I'm sorry can we go out 2 dinner or something 2 make it up 2 U, instead he txt me sayin when UR done bein mad give me a call! OK yes, I'm 29, holding grudges is probably childish %26amp; we tend 2 ignore ea other when out w/friends %26amp; its been since July ...but I'm still faced with why should I approach him %26amp; let it go.

Haven't spoken to a really good friend in months...b/c he missed my birthday...should I call a truce?
You got a man, he wanted a lady. Maybe even if he couldn't have hit that, he wanted to meet a new group of people to explore his options. He's 29. He might want to settle down. His group of friends isn't cutting it, he knows yours, so he was just exploring other groups.





that said -- it was a jerk thing to do!!! But at least he was honest about it! Best friends don't lie about it, even if it's going to slap you in the face b/c they're being jerks! So talk it over with your boyfriend, see what he thinks again, try to work it out with your best friend.
Reply:I think you have very high expectations of friends for your birthday. He is your friend, not your boyfriend or husband and he has no obligation to "take you out" on your birthday. I am sure if you had a boyfriend you would have "dumped" your friend if your boyfriend was going to take you out for your birthday. Grow up!
Reply:stop over reacting he is not ur man he is just ur friend. get over it sorry to be hush
Reply:just call him and say "your sorry for overreacting but i didn't appreciate it when you chose to go to someone else's party"
Reply:That is a stupid reason....

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