Do you think I should give up on going out with friend’s b/c he doesn’t want me to?

My husband says that married woman do not belong in the club. I am 20 years old and never really got done with partying, I want to be a good wife but once in while just go out and have fun with my other married girlfriend. We go out once in a while but when we do he just stands on the wall and watches me the entire night, it’s annoying. Do you think I should give up on going out with friend’s b/c he doesn’t want me to?

Do you think I should give up on going out with friend’s b/c he doesn’t want me to?
Don't ever give up your friends and going out. I have been married for almost 9 years now and my husband and I have been through hell and back. He doesn't like me going to clubs so when I want to go out without him me and my friends will usually go out and have a drink in a resturants bar.





When you want to go a bar/club, take him with you even if he stands on the wall, he will see that you behave yourself and he will eventually trust you.





So, the short answer here is don't give up going out with your friends.





Honey, you are 20 years old, you have a lot of life left in you. Don't give in now or he will expect it from now on and you guys will end up divorced in a few years.





Good luck!
Reply:This is a double edged sword...on one hand...you are married and should not be going out to clubs/bars without your husband...that just makes good sense...on the other...why not do other things with your girlfriend? Dinner...movies?
Reply:No you shouldn't give up going out with friends because your married. HOWEVER, what is at a club that would attract a married woman? Dancing? I know how people dance (bump%26amp;grind and grab%26amp;smack)....how is that appropriate when your married? When I was single and went to clubs all I did was drink and prowl around for a man to take home.





Your married! Find more appropriate outlets to party.
Reply:I think your husband has a point. If you wanted to sow your wild oats, you should have done that before settling down. There are plenty of things to do that don't include partying like a single person.
Reply:pinniethewooh has a point. but i see where ur coming from. 20 is reallllllllly young. i think at that age, you can have husband time, and girl friend time. if ur gonna go to a club and he's not going to dance, i don't think he should even go in the first place. while ur out with ur girl friends, he can go out with his guy friends. just make sure the both of you don't get too crazy while ur apart. have trust in each other and you should have a nice, longlasting relationship :)
Reply:If you are going out with other married women, I would not feel guilty about it at all. It sounds like he has a control issue, and once you give in to it, you may find yourself to be very unhappy.
Reply:ur husband is so selfish...going out with friends is not bad ....don't give up girl u need to enjoy too try to talk with ur husband...

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