My best friend is jealous b/c i have the perfect life?

ok, i saw her today at church, and she was really sad. we knew each other ever since we were little, like in the early 90s!!! my mom and her mom were best friends. anyway, she looked really terrible today at church and i was her closest friend over there, so i asked what's wrong. she was really agressive and told me to get lost. i was concerned so i asked my other freind to ask her whats wrong. she said that i have the perfect life, perfect boyfriend, perfect grades for college this year and the perfect family. the worse thing is...all of this is true.


my life IS perfect. my grades are high, my mom and dad loves each other SO much, my boyfriend is her crush ever since she was little, my life IS perfect. i dont wanna rub it in b/c..my bff Eva (thats her name), had the worst. Her parents divorced when she was 9, her mom abusived and hit her, she almost got raped by her stepfather, she was at the hospital a few months ago for attemtping suicide, she really has dangerous low self esteem.

My best friend is jealous b/c i have the perfect life?
wow. just keep having a perfect life thats great but be nice to everyone, imagine how they feel. be nice to your friend from church because she has a hard life.
Reply:Hi miley bff,


I understand her feelings perfectly. It's hard to be happy for someone if you yourself aren't happy. The easiest trigger for jealousy is when you see that one thing you want most belonging to someone else. And you have plenty of things she wanted so badly. Just like what you experienced, there will be days when she will be angry at you for no particular reason. Just be more understanding of her plight. When she yells at you, bear in mind that it's not you she's mad at, it's simply her jealous-personality taking over her. Be a good friend to her %26amp; show her more compassion. Stretch your patience longer with her because she's all you're not. And that's a very difficult thing for someone to deal especially if you're in constant contact. You can't blame her if she makes comparison. You're more blessed than her %26amp; be thankful for that. The least you can do is show understanding %26amp; love. Be her true friend. Knowing her better can help you understand more about what life is all about at the other end of the rainbow.
Reply:id say leave her alone...if she is being rude to you. you dont deserve being yelled at. but talk to her after she calms down...thats is, only if she does.
Reply:dont let her make u feel bad its ok u have a nice life and good things instead of feeling bad just be thankful and doesnt bring anything up to her act normal and let her know ur there for her
Reply:wow i'm so sad for your friend! that must be really tough. You should continue to support her and help her out by reminding her that she will get through this. What she really needs is a friend and you can help her by being there for her. Make sure she knows that she can always count on you. I know that you said that she was really rude to you but just give her time because eventually she will come around. For now, just remind her that you are there if she ever needs to talk. Once she realizes how much you care about her, she will be thankful for such a good friend.

sweet pea