well i started a new year @ a new school, after being homeschooled, so when gr.10 came around, i was excited to meet new friends, but theres a problem with that. see my bff who went to this new school, is like the most attention needy person i know, so all of my friends ignore me when shes around, and i feel so out of the loop with things, like she will get invited to things, and then she will have to invite me along, b.c i rarely keep in contact with these friends. i am also very shy around people who carry convos well, like i wont want to compete when sum1 talks. there are so many times when i have things in common w/these people, but i never get the courage to say ne thing, so no one knows NETHING about me. how could i get more talkative and open to my friends. like i just feel so overshadowed by my one friend. what do i do?
My friends are only friends with me b/c of a mutial friend...i know confusing?
You will not grow as long as you are in the shade of your friend's limelight. Set a goal for yourself of participating in at least one conversation that has to do with you and your preferences/likes/etc... this week. Then next week, do it again and maybe add another. You can do this! Ask your friend to help you, maybe?
Try making a new friend on your own, as well.
Good luck!
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Reply:How can you be friends with someone you know nothing about? You can't. Her friends can't do it either. Get to know one person at a time, not a group. Choose someone you feel comfortable with. Talk with that person, get to know him/her, that is what a friend is for, isn't it?
Reply:first you need to strat talking.maybe you should have a party for invite them over and learn things about them.
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