I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?





we're 14 in london.. basically, yesterday 2 muggers around 2 years older than us tried mugging us.. my friend told me to follow him in a shop so we stay safe, the security guard helped us get home safely. next day, he changes his screenname to "Im so smart! i saved mine and bobs life today!". now that didnt bother me.. but when he makes up stuff about me pee'ing myself and fainting %26lt;- never happened ( he was MUCH more scared than me ). that REALLY annoyed me.. i came on msn and atleast 3 people laughed at me saying about how much of a p*ssy i was.. this guy was like my best friend.. so i had a huge 30 min argument with him on msn, and basically, we really hate the crap out of eachother. we do work experience in BOOTS together. we wanted to work with eachother to keep us entertained and stuff like that. tomorrow, i see him again, but how should i act? i wanna just not speak

I c my friend everyday 4 work experience but ive just fallen out with him on the net bigtime how should i act?
I understand why you're upset with your friend for sure. He made something up to make himself appear more tough in that situation. It's an experience that you went through together, and unfortunately, he twisted it around, in order to make himself feel better. At this age, a lot of people will sometimes feel the need to make things up about themselves or even about others in order to gain some type of attention. It stems from a lack of confidence, and a need to fit in with others, often. I think that you should try your best to tell your friend that what he did was not fair. Try to say it calmly if you can, or write it online in an email to him. You don't have to say too much, but you can say "I'm very disappointed because i don't understand why you lied about the situation. It was very upsetting when i was being called names by other people, because of what you wrote on line." (The other people who called you names for this were also un-fair as well, and they did it for the same reasons as your friend, insecurity).


It might be best to say it in person, but try to say it calmly if you can. This should make him understand that what he did was wrong and unfair to you, because you are friends. If he does not accept what he has done, and if he repeats this again, you have to be honest and ask yourself if you really want to be his friend in this case. I hope this helps.