If you don't feel that you can be honest with them about how you feel, I think you should find other activities to do, getting too busy to support your friendship. Friendships will dry up, if you don't water them regularly with visits, phone calls and notes. If you are too busy to fit her into your schedule, she'll either ask you up front what's up or she'll slowly move on to someone else. If she asks, that's your cue to be honest, even though it might hurt. Without knowing how she "makes" you feel bad, it's hard to know if you're not bringing on some of this treatment yourself, actually encouraging her that it's ok to treat you this way. Some people think it's better to have a "bad" friend than no friend at all. If she is truly a "toxic" friend, move on to more positive people. In time, she'll fade away. I would rather that she knows exactly what's causing you to not want to be around her. Maybe she doesn't have a clue that she's treating you badly. Maybe she does this to everyone. If not, you have to ask yourself why you? Letting her know will give her the option of changing...or not. If you have body odor, and everyone avoids you, not wanting to be around you, wouldn't you want to be told? You might think everyone hates you or maybe doesn't like your clothes or something. No one has the right to treat you badly. You give them that right. You can take it away. %26lt;*)))%26gt;%26lt;
How do you tell someone that you don't want to be their friend anymore b/c all they do is make you feel bad?
tell them how you feel and ask why they do it. they usually stop.
Reply:IGNORE THEM ALSO TELL THEM HOW U FEEL!
Reply:Tell them exactly how you feel. Say,"You make me feel like crap all the time. I can't continue being your friend if you're going to to keep saying or doing things that are offensive to me. I've been a good friend to you, but you haven't been a good friend to me." If they don't want to listen, leave and let them know that the friendship is over.
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