I really like a close guy friend but I don't know if I should tell him or not b/c it may ruin our friendship!

I have a really close guy friend and I like him more than just a friend but I don't know whether I should let him know or not. My friends say they think he could like me that way by what they've seen but I keep on doubting it thinking he's just being a friend. He's always joking with me and he doesn't push me away when I start flirting with him but I don't know if he's aware thats what I'm doing though. He put his arm around me before and people always ask if we are together. The other day someone asked him if he liked me that way in front of me and he said no but I'm not sure if he just didn't want me to know he did or if he really doesn't. He's around me a lot and no matter what I do he doesn't get annoyed when I flirt with him. My friends say that his eyes light up when he sees me and that he acts different around me than others but I don't see it. I'm not sure if I should tell him b/c I'm afraid he might pull away from me and I'd rather us be friends rather than lose him...HELP

I really like a close guy friend but I don't know if I should tell him or not b/c it may ruin our friendship!
First, ask yourself this: would you rather go on being his friend and live in this torture, or would you rather know for certain how he feels?





I know from experience that loosing a guy is sometimes much better that keeping one you will always wonder about.





Then remember that just because your friends say he "lights up" when he sees you, that doesn't mean he has romantic feelings for you. And most guys have no idea when you are trying to flirt with them.





Make it clear that you are open to a romantic relationship with him. He should be a man, step up and do the rest. If not, move on and find a guy who will. You deserve that.
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