Sunday, July 12, 2009

I asked this girl to homecoming but now her friend say she cant go wit me b/c her parents wont let her. help!?

a week later after i asked this girl 1 of her friends texted me and told me she cant go wit me b/c her parents dont no me and that they r very strict. then she texted me again saying that she will hang out wit me and still dance wit me if i wanted. sounds like her friend is saying the truth but im feeling this vibe that this is just an excuse to not go with me b/c if she couldnt go wit me then y did her friend tell me and not herself. the point is i have no idea wat 2 do b/c she is now "tecnically" not my date. should i find other date. but i like this girl and i don want to hurt her feelings b/c her freind said she is still willing to dance wit me. the plan was to hang out wit her b4 HC and after HC but now i dnt no if i should stick wit it. wat do i do. my date is alittle shy and me too but should i talk wit her and see wats the deal anyways. for god sakes my mom wanted to me get a pic of her and me at HC and now i dont even no if i should do that too!! serious answrs pls. i need it!

I asked this girl to homecoming but now her friend say she cant go wit me b/c her parents wont let her. help!?
Okay, here's the best way to handle it. Ask the other girl, and explain to her that you would like to dance with other female friends as well, and ask her if that would be alright with her. Then try to get a kind of mixed group thing going, and so that one girl isn't ever on her own and feeling left out - ask your friends to help with this. It's just a dance, socialising with music. In fact, it would be nice if you made a point of dancing with all the girls in your class, if the evening is long enough.





Don't do the photo thing if you don't want to.

dracaena

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