My friend likes this guy so i started talking to him for her. And now, i think i like him!! I have a boyfriend but even when im with him i can only think of this guy!! My friend and this guy have never met but i think he likes her. i don't really like my boyfriend anymore but i don't wanna break up with him. What should i do!!!!! plz help me!
Help Me!!! I started talking to this guy for my friend b/c she likes him, and now i like him!?
OMG! Grow up!
1. If your friend likes a guy (who she's never met? Ugh!), she needs to talk to him, not you.
2. If you don't really like your boyfriend, do both of you a favor and break up with him. Be nice about it; it's not fair to be with someone when you know you don't really like them.
3. Do not go after this guy. Even though he and your friend aren't going out, you putting the moves on him makes you a crappy friend.
4. If you think he likes her (although he's never met her, which is silly), then you really shouldn't go after him. He's not into you.
5. Never, ever stay with someone just because there's no one else waiting to be your boyfriend. Don't stay with someone if you're unhappy.
Reply:If you value your friendship with your friend you will leave well enough alone. You should also let your boyfriend down easily. Sounds like it's not what you want anyway. Remember the grass only looks greener on the other side. There is weeds, ant hills and dog poop in every yard. Think about it.
In the meantime, have a lovely day!
Reply:If you dont like your bf,,break up with him.Then,,see what happens.If your friend %26amp; the guy hook up,,let it be.If not,,see what happens,,,
Reply:Make sure your friend is with you when you talk to him from now on, if she is really a true friend you will be able to share the new guy and your b/f will probably enjoy having another grrl if you share ur b/f with her.
Reply:If you are a good friend dont get involved with the guy she likes that is just not right. You dont want to do anything to jeapardize your friendship. If you dont like your b/f anymore why are you together? If things dont work out between the 2 of you and your friend doesnt end up dating this guy I see nothing wrong with you going after him just not while your friend likes him at the same time.
Reply:I was in that same situation...but i valued my friendship more and had to eventually get over the boy...You are acting greedy by having a boyfriend and liking this guy HE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FOR YOUR FRIEND...
EITHER:
YOU CAN TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU ARE NOT GOING TO HOOK HER UP ANYMORE AND THAT SHE NEEDS TO DO IT HERSELF
OR:
ARE TELL HER THAT YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM NOW AND TALK ABOUT HIM WHENEVER HE COMES AROUND
the only bad thing about this situation now is that no one can have him...
Reply:i think you should learn to love the one youre with and stop looking to be a skeezer you should have just said what you needed too so your friend could get the ball rolling with the guy SHE likes and left well enough alone for real ........E
Reply:Wait. Time will let you see if you like him or not and maybe your friend wont like him anymore
Reply:I have the same problem me and my bf have been going out for a year and now i think i might like his best friend. I feel so bad. Talk to your friend and maybe she will understand and talk to your bf to!
Good Luck
Cali
Reply:Play. Your friend should have had the guts to talk to him herself. She didn't earn it - you did!
Weigh up the odds and see who's best suited to you.
Maybe get your friend to talk to your bf and see if they hit it off.
You sound young. If this is so don't tie yourself down yet have some fun and when Mr right comes along and it's the right time for you it will happen. It's healthy to make friends and get to know guys before you choose one.
Reply:if u dont wanna loose your best friend stay away from him, trust me, i know a girl who has zero friends because of the exact same reason. oh and if you dont like your b/f thats why yourr thinking of this guy, break up with him, and start talking to other guys as well, i'm sure you'll start to like a few, and you wont have to choose the one ur friend likes.
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