I lost my best friend b/c I went back out with a boy that cheated on me. How is this fair?

Your friends should stick by you through thick or thin, otherwise they aren't your friend.

I lost my best friend b/c I went back out with a boy that cheated on me. How is this fair?
I mean obviously your friend cares about your feelings and doesn't want to see you get hurt but to stop being friends with you over it. Honestly your right that's not fair. It's your life and your decision and if she really was a true friend she'd support that and give you advice along the way but not stop being friends with you over a choice you made. Don't feel bad do what makes you happy and if people can't support that then you really need to check the relationship you have with the person.
Reply:Your friend wants what's best for you I'm sure, and if he cheated once...... chances are he will do it again 10 times worse.
Reply:It's not but neither is life... sorry!
Reply:well maybe she really cares about you and remember chicks before ***** (no homo) but yea it sounds like she only wants the best for you and she feels betrayed
Reply:My bet is that your friend is simply concerned for your well being. She probably doesn't want to see you get hurt again.


(you really can't blame her can you)





Only you know the whole story behind all of this......try to look at it objectively from her point of view...





Talk to her about it....find out what's really eating at her, why she's not coming around, etc....





Remember....guys come %26amp; go......best friends can last a lifetime...


Good Luck!
Reply:its not, if you're best friend really cared about you they would be happy for you.